New Year Resolutions - Friend or Foe?
December 4, 2008 · Print This Article
Making a New Year’s resolution has to be the least effective method of goal setting. These are the goals that people make and with the intent of not following through. You’ll discover that it’s a goal or commitment to do something throughout the year. It’s something that’s measurable since you need to accomplish your resolution by the end of the year and you’ll be able to detail the amount of success you’re looking for. You’ll also find that many of these New Year resolutions are abandoned soon after they start them, simply because they’re not reasonable. If you’d truly like to change, you need to make sure that it’s something that you can actually do.
If you do decide to make a resolution you may want to find someone to help keep you motivated and hold you accountable. Most people try to lose some weight. It is very common for some to start the weigh-loss program, but then they shortly lose interest. You’ll need to sit down and think about what it will take for you to make the goal a success. This may mean that you’ll have to gain a partnership with a close friend or you may have to find the self-control to keep focused.
To make one of these resolutions realistic, you’ll need to think small. You’ll also need to come up with some sort or plan using the success of milestones to help push you further. There’s a lot of motivation to be developed concerning this type of goal, but you need to have the self-discipline to stick with it. You can’t allow yourself to give up even if that is all you can think about.
It’s also important that you have support from your family and friends. You’ll find that it’s very important because you’re going to need a pep talk every now and then. Most people find resolutions scary because they know they can do it, but they’re afraid to prove it to themselves.
Don’t let your next New Year’s Resolution to go down hill before you have even started working towards the goal!
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